I Wish

I WISH WE WERE STILL FRIENDS,
LIKE WE USED TO BE,
WE DID EVERYTHING TOGETHER,
JUST U & ME.

WE SPENT EVERY DAY TOGETHER,
BUT WE'RE NO FRIENDS ANYMORE,
U LEFT ME HERE ALL ALONE.
Y DID OUR FRENDSHIP END?

I MISS U A LOT,
AND THINK ABOUT U ALL THE TIME.
I WONDER HOW THINGS WOULD BE,
IF WE WERE SILL TALKING.

I NEED U HERE FOR ME,
LIKE U ALWAYS USED TO BE,
RIGHT BY MY SIDE,
ALWAYS NEXT TO ME.

BUT WE WENT SEPARATE WAYS,
AND WILL PROBABLY NEVER TALK AGAIN,
BUT U MADE A DIFFERENCE IN MY LIFE,
AND I'LL NEVER FORGET ABOUT U.

That Friend

There is that friend
that is so much a part of you, that you feel alone just thinking about the thought of her not being there.

There is that friendship
that has so much that it is based on that nothing could ever dissolve or even threaten it.

There is that friend
with whom you share so much history that one fight or misunderstanding rolls off nearly instantaneously,
because one issue is so insignificant, and could never come close to shattering the bond.

There is that friendship
that cannot always be explained, but only understood and cherished by the two people that share it.

There is that friend
that mean so much to you, that you honestly believe you would stop studying for a final exam, break a date with your crush of five years, or risk being grounded just so you could be there to lend a shoulder to cry on, offer a hug, or spend three hours just sitting with her if that would make it at all better.

There is that friendship
that has lasted through ten years of your life, and is still growing.

There is that friend
who you can talk to about something that happened when you were eight years old, and she can relive that moment so vividly along with you..

There is that friend
that knows you as well as you know yourself, and finds it special that you know her just as well.

There is that friend
who can make you smile through your tears, or cry out of happiness.

There is that friend
who is always there for you, and just realizing that she would be there is more than enough to make it better.

There is that friend
who cares about clearing away your tears no less if you are crying over absolutely nothing or over something she may have done to hurt you.

I have one friend like that, and it is that friend that will always occupy a precious part of my heart.

Real Mother

FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO PLAN TO BE GREAT MUMS, THOSE OF YOU, WHO ARE GREAT MUMS,
THOSE WHO HAVE GREAT MUMS AND THOSE OF YOU WHO HAD GREAT MUMS...

Real Mothers don't eat quiche; they don't have time to make it.

Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils are probably in the sandbox.

Real Mothers often have sticky floors, filthy ovens and happy kids.

Real Mothers know that dried play dough doesn't come out of shag carpets.

Real Mothers don't want to know what the vacuum just sucked up.

Real Mothers sometimes ask 'Why me?' and get their answer when a little voice says, 'Because I love you best.'

Real Mothers know that a child's growth is not measured by height or years or grade... It is marked by the progression of Mama to Mum to Mother...

4 YEARS OF AGE - My Mummy can do anything!

8 YEARS OF AGE - My Mum knows a lot! A whole lot!

12 YEARS OF AGE - My Mother doesn't really know quite everything.

14 YEARS OF AGE - Naturally, Mother doesn't know that, either.

16 YEARS OF AGE - Mother? She's hopelessly old-fashioned.

18 YEARS OF AGE - That old woman? She's way out of date!

25 YEARS OF AGE - Well, she might know a little bit about it.

35 YEARS OF AGE - Before we decide, let's get Mum's opinion.

45 YEARS OF AGE - Wonder what Mum would have thought about it?

65 YEARS OF AGE - Wish I could talk it over with Mum.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows, and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!

Falling Leaves

I was thinking of old friends today

and how many of them have slipped away.

Moved, got married, or stopped calling so much,

Found new friends, got busy, and just lost touch.

It reminded me of falling leaves .

Every autumn the leaves fall from the trees.

Some stay longer than others, but eventually -

Each leaf must fall, I'm told,

leaving the tree alone to face the cold.

Why is it that in the time of utmost need

the leaves would seek to leave the tree?

And when we need our friends around

we look and they cannot be found?

Of course these friendships come and go

and in the spring new leaves will grow.

But I prefer autumn friends of old

with crackling laughter and colors bold.

And then I thought of you

That one stubborn leaf that won't let go.

Why I Hate You ???

I hate u, not bcoz u've betrayed me;

i hate u, not bcoz u've hurt my feelings;

i hate u, not bcoz u've pinched my heart;

i hate u, not bcoz u've stormed my dreams;

i hate u, not bcoz u've kept me waitin;

i hate u, not bcoz u've broken my trust...

the only reason of my hatred is that
im not able to forget u.

ur eyes,
ur smile,
ur talks…

the more i try to forget u..
the more i remember u
and the more i hate u.

i loved u from the depth of heart.
my love for u was as true,
as the heartbeat which runs through my body,
and speaks out only ur name...

i loved u,
and that love of mine
will always remind me
that,
i have to hate u....

THAT IS WHY "I HATE U".

10 Secrets Of Love

The Power Of Thought:
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The Power Of Respect:
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, “What do I respect about myself?” To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself “What do I respect about them?”

The Power Of Giving:
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The Power Of Friendship:
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other’s eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love’s seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The Power Of Touch:
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The Power Of Letting Go:
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it’s yours, if it doesn’t, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. “Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life.”

The Power Of Communication:
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: “I Love you.” Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.. Why are you waiting?

The Power Of Commitment:
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The Power Of Passion:
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The Power Of Trust:
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels wrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, “Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? ” If the answer is “no”, think carefully before making a commitment.

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100 Ways to Make Yourself Happy

01. Call an old friend, just to say ‘Hi’.
02. Hold a door open for a stranger.
03. Invite someone to lunch.
04. Compliment someone on his or her appearance.
05. Ask a coworker for their opinion on a project.
06. Bring cookies to work.
07. Let someone cut in during rush hour traffic.
08. Leave a waitress or waiter a big tip.
09. Tell a cashier to have a nice day.
10. Call your parents.

11. Let someone know you miss them.
12. Treat someone to a movie.
13. Let a person know you really appreciate them.
14. Visit a retirement center.
15. Take a child to the zoo.
16. Fill up your spouse’s car with gas.
17. Surprise someone with a small gift.
18. Leave a thank-you note for the cleaning staff at work.
19. Write a letter to a distant relative.
20. Tell someone you thought about them the other day.

21. Put a dime in a stranger’s parking meter before the time expires.
22. Bake a cake for a neighbor.
23. Send someone flowers to, where they work.
24. Invite a friend to tea.
25. Recommend a good book to someone.
26. Donate clothing to a charity.
27. Offer an elderly person a ride to where they need to go.
28. Bag your own groceries at the checkout counter.
29. Give blood.
30. Offer free baby-sitting to a friend who’s really busy or just needs a break.

31. Help your neighbor rake leaves or shovel snow.
32. Offer your seat to someone when there aren’t any left.
33. Help someone with a heavy load.
34. Ask to see a store’s manager and comment on the great service.
35. Give your place in line at the grocery store to someone who has only a few items.
36. Hug someone in your family for no reason.
37. Wave to a child in the car next to you.
38. Send a thank-you note to your doctor.
39. Repeat something nice you heard about someone else.
40. Leave a joke on someone’s answering machine.

41. Be a mentor or coach to someone.
42. Forgive a loan.
43. Fill up the copier machine with paper after you’re done using it.
44. Tell someone you believe in them.
45. Share your umbrella on a rainy day.
46. Welcome new neighbors with flowers or a plant.
47. Offer to watch a friend’s home while they’re away.
48. Ask someone if they need you to pick up anything while you’re out shopping.
49. Ask a child to play a board game, and let them win.
50. Ask an elderly person to tell you about the good old days.

51. During bad weather, plan an indoor picnic with the family.
52. Buy someone a goldfish and bowl.
53. Compliment someone on their cooking and politely ask for a second helping.
54. Dance with someone who hasn’t been asked.
55. Tell someone you mentioned them in your prayers.
56. Give children’s clothes to another family when your kids outgrow them.
57. Deliver extra vegetables from your garden to the whole neighborhood.
58. Call your spouse just to say, I love you.
59. Call someone’s attention to a rainbow or beautiful sunset.
60. Invite someone to go bowling.

61. Figure out someone’s half-birthday by adding 182 days, and surprise them with a cake.
62. Ask someone about their children.
63. Tell someone which quality you like most about them.
64. Brush the snow off of the car next to yours.
65. Return your shopping cart to the front of the store.
66. Encourage someone’s dream, no matter how big or small it is.
67. Pay for a stranger’s cup of coffee without them knowing it.
68. Leave a love letter where your partner will find it.
69. Ask an older person for their advice.

70. Offer to take care of someone’s pet while they’re away.
71. Tell a child you’re proud of them.
72. Visit a sick person, or send them a care package.
73. Join a Big Brother or Sister program.
74. Leave a piece of candy on a coworker’s desk.
75. Bring your child to work with you for the afternoon.
76. Give someone a recording of their favorite music.
77. Email a friend some information about a topic they are especially interested in.
78. Give someone a homemade gift.
79. Write a poem for someone.
80. Bake some cookies for your local fire or police department.

81. Organize a neighborhood cleanup and have a barbecue afterwards.
82. Help a child build a birdhouse or similar project.
83. Check in on an old person, just to see if they’re okay.
84. Ask for the recipe after you eat over at someone’s house.
85. Personally welcome a new employee at work and offer to take them out for lunch.
86. While in a car, ask everyone to buckle up because they are important to you.
87. Let someone else eat the last slice of cake or pizza.
88. Stop and buy a drink from a kid’s lemonade stand.
89. Forgive someone when they apologize.

90. Wave to someone looking for a parking space when you’re about to leave a shopping center.
91. Send a copy of an old photograph to a childhood friend.
92. Leave a pint of your spouse’s favorite flavor of ice cream in the freezer with a bow on it.
93. Do a household chore that is usually done by someone else in the family.
94. Be especially happy for someone when they tell you their good news.
95. Compliment a coworker on their role in a successful project.
96. Give your spouse a spontaneous back rub at the end of the day.
97. Serve someone in your family breakfast in bed.
98. Ask someone if they’ve lost weight.
99. Make a donation to a charity in someone’s honor.
100. Take a child to a ballgame.

My Love only gave me Tears

Even though I said that final good-bye
Even though it was all up to me
I still cry
I still cry for when we were the best of friends
For the nights we spent together
And for what was never suppose to be
I cry not for u or me but because of what was never there
I cry for what was in my mind and how it will never be again
To stop crying is something I somewhat learned from u
Too many kisses led to the tragedy
Too many hugs that felt for nothing
Too many tears frozen just because of that one simple good-bye
Too many emotions defrosted because I stood up for myself and lost someone special
But that’s in the past and that’s where it needs to stay
Forever I will remember the frozen tear that meant so much to me and nothing to u
One more frozen tear cried and I will forever say my final good-bye

What Is Love ???

You know you are in Love,
when you see the world in her/his eyes,
and her/his eyes everywhere in the world.

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One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life:
That word is love.

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If you have it [love],
you don’t need to have anything else.
If you don’t have it,
it doesn’t matter much what else you do have.

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What a grand thing, to be loved!
What a grander thing still, to love!

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Love is strong yet delicate.
It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.
To be in love is to respect this.

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When you love someone,
all your saved-up wishes start coming out.

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Love is not blind - It sees more and not less,
but because it sees more it is willing to see less.

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Love is more than a feeling;
it’s a state of mind.

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Love is sweet, delicate, dreamy
an eternity of gorgeous moments.

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The way to love anything
is to realize that it might be lost

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A bell is not a bell
until someone rings it,
a song is not a song
until someone sings it.

Love wasn’t put
in the heart to stay,
for love isn’t love
’till you give it away.

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Love is when you look into someone’s eyes,
and see everything you need.

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The best things in life
can never be kept;
They must be given away.
A Smile, a Kiss, and Love

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Finding love
is like finding one answer
to all of your prayers.

Love is a moment that lasts forever…

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What do you think about the “Love”?

What is “Love”?

Your comment is appreciated.

Mere gar se bhi aek din doli uthegi
Tere gar se bhi doli uthengi
Muje bhi 4 uthaaenge tuje bhi 4 uthaaenge
Par fark sirf itana hoga ki
tuje tere sage uthaaenge
Aur muje mere yaar uthaaenge,

Muj per bhi phool bikharen ge
Aur tuj per bhi phool bhikharenge
Par fark sirk itana hoga ki
tuj per bikhare huae phool mushkurate honge
Aur mujper bikhare huae phool murjate honge,

Tere jane ae bhi log roaenge
aur mere jane se bhi log roaenge
Par fark sirf itana hoga ki
tu gar chhodkar jarahi hongi
Aur me dunia chodakar jaraha honga...

Intzaar

mujy aaj b uss raat ka intzaar hai….
jismey maine ussey chaand main dekha tha….
mujy aaj b unn sapno ka intzaar hai…..
jinmey unsey mila tha….
mujy aaj b unn palo ka intzaar hai….
jinmey unke saath tha……
mujy aaj b unka intzaar hai…

mujy intzaar hai har uss baat ka……
jo maine unke saath ki hai…
mujy aaj b intzaar hai unn aakhon ka..
jo mujy har pal dekhti hai…
mujy aaj b intzaar hai haaton ka..
jo mere haaton main hai…
mujy aaj b unka intzaar hai…

kaash mujy yeh mukkmal jahan mil jaata,
manzil tak saath dene k liye koi humrahi mil jaata,
mere gamo ko apna kehne wala mil jaata,
kaash mujy yeh mukkmal jahan mil jaata.

kaash mujy yeh mukkmal jahan mil jaata,
andhera dur karne k liye chiraag miljaata,
saari khwaaish puri karne k liye bagwaan mil jaata,
kaash mujy yeh mukkmal jahan mil jaata.

kaash mujy yeh mukkmal jahan mil jaata,
faasle mitaaney k liye waqt mil jaata,
unski ek jhalak paaney k liye unka ek ikraar mil jaata,
kaash mujy yeh mukkmal jahan mil jaata.

kaash mujy yeh mukkmal jahan mil jaata,
duniya se janey se pehle unka pyaar mil jaata,
iss duniya main wapis aane ka ek bahaana mil jaata,
kaash mujy yeh mukkmal jahan mil jaata.

Dur

kal tak woh paas thay,
aaj woh humsey dur ho gye
kal tak jiss waqt uski aakon main dekhta tha,
aaj uss waqt uski yadoon main kho gye
har pal jab uskey saath tha,
kush tha…
magar ab woh dur ho gye.
saath chalney kaa wada kiya tha,
magar aaj akele ho gye..
har khushi ki wajah woh hoti thay,
aaj aasun ki wajah ban gye.
woh humsey dur ho gye..
unhoney mere liye kisi ko chhoda tha,
aaj unhi ki wajah se mujey chhod gye….
woh humsey dur ho gye…
woh humari har baat maantey thay,
aaj jab unki baat maanney kaa wada kiya,
toh isi baat ka bahana bana kar chaley gye…
woh humsey dur ho gye..
kal tak jeeney ki wjah thay,
aaj marney ki wjah ban gye…
woh humsey dur hogye…

Akela

unn raho pe jiss ke saath chalta tha,
aaj unn raho pe apni tanhaaiyon ke saath chlta hun,
kon kehta hai mein akela hun.
mere dost mere paas nahi hai toh kya hua,
unki yaadon ke saaath rehta hun,
kon kehta hai mein akela hun.
aaj bhi usko dhundney har raat ko niklta hun,
uska aaj bhi wahi par intzaar karta hun,
pta hai woh ni aayegi,
magar uskey intzaar main waqt se baat karta hun,
kon kehta hai mein akela hun.
sunsaan galio main jaakar rota hun,
woh mere aasun puchti thi yehi baat sochtha hun,
mere khayalo, mere dil, mere har ek pal main hai woh,
kon kehta hai mein akela hun.

Sachi Hai....

Agar mohabbat meri sachi hai to ek din zaroor mila degi
Agar zid meri pakki hai to aey Khuda aasman ko bhi hila degi

Na inkaar kar sakta hai koi meri wafa se, mujhe yakin hai
Par tum sambhalna ek din meri wafa tujhe bewafai ka sila degi

Yeh baat sach hai ke tumne humse pyaar kiya par dusare hi pal bhula diya
Mera pyaar itna aashan na tha na socha tha ke teri mohabbat daga degi

Na bhula sakungi woh mohabbat na voh bewafai, jo tu ne ki
Saza iss se barh ke kya degi ke umar bhar meri mohabbat tujhe dua degi

Agar dum hai meri wafa-e-mahobbat mein to woh ek din, aayega zaroor
Jab meri yaad mein to tarpega par tab ’sabghat’ tujhe apni mohabbat na degi

Three 3 Inner Secrets to Happiness

We all know & understand that money can’t buy happiness … but many times we act, happier with a bit more money. In our thinking We are conditioned to want to be rich (we also know the rich aren’t happy either); we are trained to want the latest style that television tells us; we feel, we want to earn more money to have the good life.

But none of that will bring us happiness. No matter how much we earn, how much we have in the bank, how nice our clothing or cars or toys. And the sad thing is that it could take us decades of pursuing wealth and luxury items before we realize this.

So what will bring us happiness????? ………..

Luckily, there are three 3 things which do not COST & are FREE by nature. These three things have been proven by research. Here they are, the Three Secrets to Happiness:

1. GOOD RELATIONSHIPS.

We have a human need to be close with other human beings. Having good, supportive friendships or close and loving relationships with our family members will make us to be happy.

Action steps:

· Take time, today, to spend time with your loved ones

· Tell them what they mean to you, to listen to them, and develop your relationship with them.

2. POSITIVE THINKING.

Positive thinking is the best way to achieve your goals, it can lead to happiness too. Optimism and self-esteem are some of the best indicators of people who lead happy lives.

Action steps :

· Make positive thinking a habit.

· Replace negative thoughts with positive ones.

· Instead of “I can’t” think “I can”. It may sound corny, but it can work.

3. LOVE YOUR WORK.

This is the MOST important secret. Become a passionate for the assigned WORK. If we are so immersed in our loving task, we lose track of time, this state will lead to happiness. People find enjoyment when they’re in a challenge.

Action steps:

· Find work or hobbies that you’re passionate about.

· Turn off the TV, get outside and do something that TRULY ENGAGES YOU.

Maaboli itihaas da vehrha jad v hunjegi,
Bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone vich gunjegi…
niyo k chuki jwana ve dhigh payi nath panjabi di,[bindrakhiya's first sog]
V tere geeta naal bhari si sath panjabi di.
jado dupaate satrange naal athru punjhegi,[BBC Biggest hit-duppata]
Bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone cho gunjegi…….
Us idd da ki kariye,jithe deed ni yara di,[bindrakhiya death on idd]
V ghat ni puri hundi shayara-fankara di.
jado kise nu maut milegi runge jhungegi.
bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone cho gunjegi….
geet vilkade rehn gaye teriya lamiya heka nu,[record of lami hek]
V tu ta tur gya sekn suraaj deya seka nu,
sir di pagrhi jad gal de kainthe nu dhundhegi.
Bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone cho gunjegi….
Ki kehke samjhava tere roundeya maapiya nu,
dushman v na changa samjhan vain-siyapeya nu.
mithi jehi muskaan kise dil nu chundhegi.
Bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone cho gunjegi…
Gidhe bhanghre de pirh sune kar gya sajna ve,
V yaad teri da tumba har dil vich vajna ve.
tu surjit rahenga duniya tenu dhundhegi,