Akela

unn raho pe jiss ke saath chalta tha,
aaj unn raho pe apni tanhaaiyon ke saath chlta hun,
kon kehta hai mein akela hun.
mere dost mere paas nahi hai toh kya hua,
unki yaadon ke saaath rehta hun,
kon kehta hai mein akela hun.
aaj bhi usko dhundney har raat ko niklta hun,
uska aaj bhi wahi par intzaar karta hun,
pta hai woh ni aayegi,
magar uskey intzaar main waqt se baat karta hun,
kon kehta hai mein akela hun.
sunsaan galio main jaakar rota hun,
woh mere aasun puchti thi yehi baat sochtha hun,
mere khayalo, mere dil, mere har ek pal main hai woh,
kon kehta hai mein akela hun.

Sachi Hai....

Agar mohabbat meri sachi hai to ek din zaroor mila degi
Agar zid meri pakki hai to aey Khuda aasman ko bhi hila degi

Na inkaar kar sakta hai koi meri wafa se, mujhe yakin hai
Par tum sambhalna ek din meri wafa tujhe bewafai ka sila degi

Yeh baat sach hai ke tumne humse pyaar kiya par dusare hi pal bhula diya
Mera pyaar itna aashan na tha na socha tha ke teri mohabbat daga degi

Na bhula sakungi woh mohabbat na voh bewafai, jo tu ne ki
Saza iss se barh ke kya degi ke umar bhar meri mohabbat tujhe dua degi

Agar dum hai meri wafa-e-mahobbat mein to woh ek din, aayega zaroor
Jab meri yaad mein to tarpega par tab ’sabghat’ tujhe apni mohabbat na degi

Three 3 Inner Secrets to Happiness

We all know & understand that money can’t buy happiness … but many times we act, happier with a bit more money. In our thinking We are conditioned to want to be rich (we also know the rich aren’t happy either); we are trained to want the latest style that television tells us; we feel, we want to earn more money to have the good life.

But none of that will bring us happiness. No matter how much we earn, how much we have in the bank, how nice our clothing or cars or toys. And the sad thing is that it could take us decades of pursuing wealth and luxury items before we realize this.

So what will bring us happiness????? ………..

Luckily, there are three 3 things which do not COST & are FREE by nature. These three things have been proven by research. Here they are, the Three Secrets to Happiness:

1. GOOD RELATIONSHIPS.

We have a human need to be close with other human beings. Having good, supportive friendships or close and loving relationships with our family members will make us to be happy.

Action steps:

· Take time, today, to spend time with your loved ones

· Tell them what they mean to you, to listen to them, and develop your relationship with them.

2. POSITIVE THINKING.

Positive thinking is the best way to achieve your goals, it can lead to happiness too. Optimism and self-esteem are some of the best indicators of people who lead happy lives.

Action steps :

· Make positive thinking a habit.

· Replace negative thoughts with positive ones.

· Instead of “I can’t” think “I can”. It may sound corny, but it can work.

3. LOVE YOUR WORK.

This is the MOST important secret. Become a passionate for the assigned WORK. If we are so immersed in our loving task, we lose track of time, this state will lead to happiness. People find enjoyment when they’re in a challenge.

Action steps:

· Find work or hobbies that you’re passionate about.

· Turn off the TV, get outside and do something that TRULY ENGAGES YOU.

Maaboli itihaas da vehrha jad v hunjegi,
Bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone vich gunjegi…
niyo k chuki jwana ve dhigh payi nath panjabi di,[bindrakhiya's first sog]
V tere geeta naal bhari si sath panjabi di.
jado dupaate satrange naal athru punjhegi,[BBC Biggest hit-duppata]
Bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone cho gunjegi…….
Us idd da ki kariye,jithe deed ni yara di,[bindrakhiya death on idd]
V ghat ni puri hundi shayara-fankara di.
jado kise nu maut milegi runge jhungegi.
bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone cho gunjegi….
geet vilkade rehn gaye teriya lamiya heka nu,[record of lami hek]
V tu ta tur gya sekn suraaj deya seka nu,
sir di pagrhi jad gal de kainthe nu dhundhegi.
Bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone cho gunjegi….
Ki kehke samjhava tere roundeya maapiya nu,
dushman v na changa samjhan vain-siyapeya nu.
mithi jehi muskaan kise dil nu chundhegi.
Bindrakhiye di awaaz kise kone cho gunjegi…
Gidhe bhanghre de pirh sune kar gya sajna ve,
V yaad teri da tumba har dil vich vajna ve.
tu surjit rahenga duniya tenu dhundhegi,

When You Thought I Wasn't Looking

(A message every parent or adult should read,

because children are watching you and doing as you do,

not as you say .)

When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator,

and I immediately wanted to paint another one.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you feed a stray cat,

and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw tears come from your eyes

and I learned that sometimes things hurt,

but it's all right to cry.

*********

When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you make my favorite cake for me

and I learned that the little things can be

the special things in life.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I heard you say a prayer,

and I knew there is a God I could always talk to

and I learned to trust in God.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I felt you kiss me good night.

I felt loved and safe.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick,

and I learned that we all have to help take care of

each other.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you give of your time and money to help people

who had nothing and I learned that those who have

something should give and share with those who don't.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it

and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I learned most of life's lessons that I need to know

from you

--how to be a good and productive person

when I grow up.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I looked at you and wanted to say,

"Thanks for all the things I saw

When you thought I wasn't looking ."

WAQT NAHIN..

HAR KHUSHI HAIN LOGON KE DAMAAN MAIN,

PAR HASIN KE LIYE WAQT NAHIN.

DIN-RAAT DAUDTI DUNIYA MAIN,

JINDAGI KE LIYE HI WAQT NAHIN.

SAARE NAAM HAIN MOBILE MAIN,

PAR DOSTI KE LIYE WAQT NAHIN.

GAIRON KI KYA BAAT KAREIN JAB,

APNO KE LIYE HI WAQT NAHIN.

AANKHON MAIN NEEND BADI,

PAR SONE KE LIYE HI WAQT NAHIN.

DIL HAIN KI GAMMON SE BHARAA HUA,

PAR RONE KA BHI WAQT NAHIN.

PAISON KI DAUD MAIN ME AESI DAUD,

KI THAKANE KA BHI WAQT NAHIN.

PARAYE EHSAASON KE LIYE KADRA KARNE JAB,

APNE SAPNO KE LIYE HI WAQT NAHIN.

TU HI BATA AE JINDAGI,

IS JINDAGI KA KYA HOGA,

KI HAR PAL MARNE WALON KO,

JINE KE LIYE BHI WAQT NAHIN...

Iss qadar zakhm hain nigaahon mein, Roz ek aaiinaa tod detaa huun

Khud ko parhtaa huun, chhod detaa huun,
Aik varq roz mod detaa huun,

Iss qadar zakhm hain nigaahon mein,
Roz ek aaiinaa tod detaa huun,

Main pujaarii baraste phuulon ka,
Chhuu ke shaakhon ko chhod detaa huun,

Kaasa-e-shab mein khuun suuraj kaa,
Qatraa qatraa nichod detaa huun,

Kaampte honth bhiigtii palkein,
Baat adhuurii hii chhod detaa huun,

Mann dee agni nu na raahat hee mili hai

Sheesheyan ch baitha jo khud nu chhupa ke,

Kis taran rakhega oh chehra luka ke,

Rukh vichara vekhda hee reh gya,

Lai gyi hai paun sabh patte udaa ke,

Mann dee agni nu na raahat hee mili hai,

Dekhiyaa sau vaari barfaan vich nahaa ke,

Kaun puchhega eh kyon kar jaagda,

Saun gaye jadd ghook sabh kisse sunaa ke,

Dekho uss dee laash saj ke ja rahi hai,

Umar bhar jo jiviyaa hasti mita ke,

Apna hee dil jadon apna na baniya,

Kee karaange gair nu apna banaa ke,

Good Bye

I don't really want to say goodbye
I don't really want to leave you...
But now I have to go away
Stay away from you forever...

What we had was something special
Deep down from our hearts...
But now I have to go away
And leave you from my heart...

Try to forget but can't
Try to die yeah i can..
Mind suddenly gone
My end is near...
Nothing to do now
But to tell you that
I LOVE YOU

Har din nazar aati hai mujhe raat tere baad

Phir zindagi ne chhoda mera sath tere baad

Mere honth hansi bhule meri ankh hui nam

Kitne bure hue hain halaat tere baad

Hain nafratein hi nafratein aa dekh to sahi

Dunia hui hai kitni badzaat tere baad

Ansu hain k ankhon ka bharam rakhte hi nahi

Rukti nahi hai ashkon ki barsaat tere baad

Tujh ko bhulna chahe to kis tarah

Hai dil mein ab bhi tere khyaalaat tere baad

RELATIONSHIP SECRETS !!!!!!!!!

ANNIVERSARIES
Always celebrate! Whether it's the 1st or the 50th, each year together is a triumph.

APPRECIATION
Let each other know how much you appreciate each other. You may already know but hearing it from each other is always better.

BEST FRIENDS
Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfrien d. Take time to know each other so the relationship will be a deep one. Tell each other about your crushes, dreams and problems. Make sure he/she is your best friend before getting engaged. The strong bond of friendship will help you both survive tough times.

BOND
Make it a point to spend time together often but leave room for each other. Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that at the end of the day you could both share your experiences. This way, you stay interesting with your partner.

CHANGING EACH OTHER
Don't marry an as...le, j.... or a bi.... (an unsuitable person) You'll never change each other.

COMPLIMENTS
Always compliment each other. This will prevent feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being taken for granted.

DATE
Keep doings things that you both enjoy, do them together. Make time & continue to date to keep the romance - look good, smell good to maintain physical attraction

DIFFERENCES
Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other's throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences, appreciate them.

FIGHTS
Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo each other. The longer you extend the fight. The more chances that you'll say something hurtful that you don't really mean. As mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still the person who laughs at your jokes & thinks you're hot. Hear each other out, don't dig up old issues. Choose your battles. Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight.

FLAWS
Know that the perfect person does not exist. Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.

FUN
Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days.
Allow yourselves to get silly - shower together, pee w/the door open etc. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.

GOALS
Make sure you have similar goals. It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.

GRUDGES
Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don't recycle it.

KEEPING IT HOT
Keep it hot by traveling to diff. places together. A new setting will do wonders. Always have skin contact - be it holding hands, a massage or just plain leg rubbing.

HONESTY
Don't lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.

KNOW EACH OTHER
Learn each other's interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing!

HUG
A hug can be far better more intimate than a kiss.

IDENTITY
Don't lose your personality - that's why he/she fell in love w/you. Have separate interest & activities to keep your individual, & to be able to contribute more to the relationship.

INDEPENDENCE
Having your own income means you're the boss in your life.

IN-LAWS
Make rooms for the in-laws.

INTENTIONS
Wish each other well. Don't wish each other worst

ISSUES
Speak up about the awkward stuff now,like money & sex. The earlier, the better.

LISTEN
Listen, listen, listen. Hear each other out especially during arguments.

LOOK GOOD
Mind your appearance! Stay fit & healthy for each other.

LOVE
It all boils down to your love, chemistry & respect for each other.

MEMORIES
Remind each other of the old days. Do something that you used to do for each other before. It may even be corny but it made you two together. Experience new things together- from dining into a new restaurant to experiencing street food together to exploring to new places. It's the little surprises that make great memories.

MIND READING
No matter how long you've been together, do not think that you can read each other's mind.

NEEDS
Be good to yourself, then be good to your partner. That's what love is all about. Think about your partner. Will it make him/her happy? Will she/he enjoy it? Consider each other's feelings. Be very attentive & sensitive to each other's needs, physically & emotionally, that way your partner learns to do the same for you. Never take your partner for granted.

PRIORITIES
If one says it's important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things!

SPACE
Give each other space. Have dates with your girlfriends, have your boy's night out. If you can't trust each other with this, then don't get married.

SORRY
Say sorry when you're wrong.

SURPRISES
No matter how long you've known each other, be open to surprises, both good or bad.

TEAMWORK
Think for two & always work as a team. Consult each other before making a decision because everything will always affect both of you. Strengthen couple power. In many ways, we have to decide based on what is best for the relationship in favor of our individual selves.

SUPPORT
Support each other's dream. Be willing to follow your passions, support your partner in his/her decisions & create new ones together. Two heads are better than one.

TALK
Tell each other's stories. Life goes by so fast & its easy to see how easily couple can grow apart. Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it & have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life, even by email if you have to.

Love For A Lifetime . .. ... ........

Our love will always seek happiness and joy
The one thing we cherish that can't be destroyed

Life is so short let's hold it forever
It's you that I want and it's you that I treasure

Your kisses of love, grasp a hold of my heart
There's nothing in this world that can keep us apart

Our bond is the key to our lifetime of dreams
And our heart is without blemish and forever clean

I thank you dear god for sending him to me
Let's let everyone know we were meant to be

Every day i wake up..
Just to spend one more day of my life with u

Every night that I go to sleep
Is only to dream about you

Every time I dress up well
Is for you to compliment me

Everytime a smile on my face
Indicates you presence near me

A smile is what comes naturally
The moment I c u or think about u

And also I cant help crying
When I am not with u..

My life is so beautiful
When we are together

Every second spent with u is precious
But I also understand it wont last forever..

Life is so short and so many things to do
We don't know abt tomo..and for rebirth I have no clue

I wanna spend every single day with you
And live happily to fullest today
Tomorrow may not just come at all
I don't want to have a regret in anyway

God has been great, to give me a gem like you
I want to preserve this gem in my heart and soul
I cant stay away without you
You are my life,my heart and my soul . . .

Trying To Forget You.....

Up until now
I had so much to say
but it's everything I've said
That's gotten in my way

I won't talk about you
Anymore to anyone
The time for that has passed
It's just over with and done

Supposed-to-be forgotten words
are still dancing in my head
And I'm just trying to "not remember"
A single thing you've said

I wanna forget all about you
Who you are and what your name is
Cause it's causing so much pain
And I honestly can't take this ..