Flower Girls....

People Come Into Your Life For A Reason.....

Pay attention to what you read.

After you have finished reading it, you will know the reason...!!! !

People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done.. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season...... ..!!!!

Some people Come for LIFETIME.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

So, guyz n gals say this to all your friends that:
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

What We Miss......

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
QUESTIONS:
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?
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ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY:
This story is really worth reading. ..... Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out something called LIFE.

School Days... Gone Are Those Days...

Gone are the days……

When the school reopened in June,

And we settled in our new desks and benches.

When we queued up in book depot,

And got our new books and notes.

When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays, yet

Managed to line up daily for the morning prayers.

We learnt writing with slates and pencils, and

Progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then micro tips.

We began drawing with crayons and evolved to

Color pencils and finally sketch pens.

We started calculating first with tables and then with

Log tables and advanced to calculators and computers.

When we chased one another in the corridors in

Intervals, and returned to the classrooms drenched in sweat.

When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors,

Playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle shed.

When all the colors in the world,

Decorated the campus on the Second Saturdays.

When a single P.T. period in the week's Time Table,

Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons.

When cricket was played with writing pads as bats,

And Neckties and socks rolled into balls.

When few played "kabadi" and "Kho-Kho" in scorching sun,

While others simply played "book cricket" in the confines of classroom.

Of fights but no conspiracies,

Of Competitions but seldom jealousy.

When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast,

In the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks.

When few rushed at 1:45 to "Conquer" window seats in our School bus.

While few others had "Big Fun", "Chock-o-bar","kulfi ice" and "Pepsi"at 2:00 Clock.

Gone are the days Of Sports Day, and the annual School Day,

And the one-month long preparations for them.

Gone are the days Of the stressful Quarterly,

Half Yearly and Annual Exams, And the most enjoyed holidays after them.

Of tenth and twelfth standards, when we Spent almost the whole year writing revision tests.

We learnt, we enjoyed, we played, we won, we lost,

We laughed, we cried, we fought, we thought.

With so much fun in them, so many friends,

So much experience, all this and more.

Gone are the days when we used to talk for hours with our friends.

Now we don't have time to say a HI.

Gone are the days when we played games on the road.

Now we code on the road with laptop.

Gone are the days when we saw stars shining at night.

Now we see stars when our code doesn't work.

Gone are the days when we sat to chat with friends on grounds.

Now we chat in chat rooms.....

Gone are the days where we studied just to pass.

Now we study to save our job

Gone are the days where we had no money in our pockets

and fun filled on our hearts

Now we have the ATM as well as credit card but with an empty heart

Gone are the days where we shouted on the road.

Now we don t shout even at home

Gone are the days where we got lectures from all.

Now we give lectures to all... like the one I'm doing now....

Gone are the days

But not the memories, which will be

Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever and Ever and Ever and Ever.....

NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU ARE,

DON'T FORGET TO LIVE THE LIFE THAT STILL EXISTS.

IT WONT BE THERE FOR EVER....

KeEP SmiLIng

~*~Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon~*~

Mein Apna Ajj Apna Kal Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon

Mein Is Jeevan Ka Har Pal Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon

Mera Guzra Hua Kaal To Mere Mazi Ka Hisah Hai

Mein Apna Ajj Apna Kaal Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon

Khizain, Sardian, Garmi, Baharein, Barishein, Jara

Mein Har Mosaam Ka Har Har Pal Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon

Tumhare Dukh, Udasi, Gham, Sabhi Ranj-o-Alam Lekar

Mein Yah Khushion Bhari Chagal Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon

Sitare Asmaan Ke Sab Tumhari Mang Mein Bhar Kar

Shaab-e-Tera Ka Sab Kajol Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon

Tumhare Bin Yah Har Aik Pal Mujahy Bechain Rakhta Hai

Mein Apna Dil Hai Jo Bekal, Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon

Barasta Bheegta Mosaam Hai Kamzori Meri Lakin

Mein Yah Sawan, Ghatta, Badal Tumhare Naam Karta Hoon.

Tears

Struggle...

All My Life I Struggled,

Struggled For Being Strong..

Never I Gave Up, Never I Quitted,

But Victory Is What I Never Got..

Try n Try Till One Succeeds

Is What A Spider Taught,

But What They Forgot To Teach Is

Human Was An Exception To This Law.

It Was The Day I Gave Up Being Strong,

Walked On The Streets Loosing The Hope All Along.

I Crossed A Street n Saw Someone Fighting

I Crossed Another n Saw Someone Crying.

What I Cudnt Cross Was The Endless Pain Everyone Carried Along.

Before It Was Late,

Before I Cud Have Ended It All,

I Decided To Turn Back,

Turn Back Home

Not To Try Till One Succeeds

But To Try Try n Get A LIFE ......................

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All Credit Goes To My Sweet Li'l Friend

Aastha Verma

For This Beautiful Composition

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I Miss My Best Friend..... I Really Do...

Every memory remains

as the days pass quickly by

as i look upon the past

my heart just wants to cry
we were always together

through the good times and the bad

i try to keep a smile

but i cant fight the feeling sad
your laugh was addicting

and so was your smile

now everything's changing

and I'm stuck in denial
the person that has change

dat first i thought was you

but i realize now its me

but its not i changed, but grew
everyone will change and everyone will grow

but i will always forever love you

and that i hope you know
guys got in the middle

and other factors too

i guess one thing thats changing

is that I'm now jealous of you
i miss so many things

about the way it used to be

we both have made mistakes

not "just" you or not "just" me
i miss all of the good times

like when we'd talk all night long or when we'd belt out the lyrics

to an old barney song
when we'd fall over laughing

and we wouldn't know why

all the hugs you gave me

when all I'd do is cry
i miss your blond moments and the things we would say

acting like stoners

day after day
i miss when we'd talk

for hours on end

but i think most of all

i just miss my best friend

Friendship....

Friendship isn't just about two people who find a special bond

it's about the mutual respect and dedication

that makes a friendship strong.....

It's what's at the heart of every friendship that matters;

such as admiration, loyalty, love and laughter....

We exhibit all those things

and we'll always be friends, you and me.

Aag Ka Dariya Hai Aur Dub Ke Jana Hai....

masoom muhabbat ka bus itna fasana hai
kagaz ki haveli hai barish ka zamana hai
us par utarne ummid bahut kam hai
kashti bhi purani hai tufan bhi ana hai
bholi si ada koi fir ishq ki zid par hai
awaz bhi zakhmi hai aur geet bhi gana hai
andaz muhabbat ka unko lagaye sine se hum
ek shaks ko ankho se hale dil sunana hai
fir dekh tamasha kudarat ka anjam hai ye rab jane
fir aag ka dariya hai aur dub ke jana hai

IMPORTANCE OF WOMEN

Why are you crying, a young boy asked his Mom?
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.
"I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will, but that's O.K.".......
Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?". "All women cry for no reason," was all his Dad could say......
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked "God, why do women cry so easily?"
GOD answered.... ..
"When I made woman, I decided she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet, made her arms gentle enough to give comfort...
I gave her the inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times will come even from her own children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going and take care of her family and friends, even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without complaining. ...
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances. Even when her child has hurt her badly....
She has the very special power to make a child's boo-boo feel better and to quell a teenager's anxieties and fears....
I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart....
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. ...
For all of this hard work, I also gave her a tear to shed. It is hers to use whenever needed and ! it is her only weakness.... When you see her cry, tell her how much you love her, and all she does for everyone, and even though she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good. She is special!

Ek Lamhe Me........

Ek lamhe me unhone zindagi sawar di,

Doosre lamhe me unhone zindagi ujad di,

Kusoor unka nahi hamara hai

un do lamho mein hamne zindagi guzar di.

saza dene wale raza puchte hain,

jeene ki humse wajah puchte hain,

dete hain khud he zahar humko aakar,

phir kitna hua hai asar puchte hain......