When You Thought I Wasn't Looking

(A message every parent or adult should read,

because children are watching you and doing as you do,

not as you say .)

When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator,

and I immediately wanted to paint another one.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you feed a stray cat,

and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw tears come from your eyes

and I learned that sometimes things hurt,

but it's all right to cry.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you make my favorite cake for me

and I learned that the little things can be

the special things in life.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I heard you say a prayer,

and I knew there is a God I could always talk to

and I learned to trust in God.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I felt you kiss me good night.

I felt loved and safe.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick,

and I learned that we all have to help take care of

each other.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you give of your time and money to help people

who had nothing and I learned that those who have

something should give and share with those who don't.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it

and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I learned most of life's lessons that I need to know

from you

--how to be a good and productive person

when I grow up.

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When you thought I wasn't looking,

I looked at you and wanted to say,

"Thanks for all the things I saw

When you thought I wasn't looking ."

WAQT NAHIN..

HAR KHUSHI HAIN LOGON KE DAMAAN MAIN,

PAR HASIN KE LIYE WAQT NAHIN.

DIN-RAAT DAUDTI DUNIYA MAIN,

JINDAGI KE LIYE HI WAQT NAHIN.

SAARE NAAM HAIN MOBILE MAIN,

PAR DOSTI KE LIYE WAQT NAHIN.

GAIRON KI KYA BAAT KAREIN JAB,

APNO KE LIYE HI WAQT NAHIN.

AANKHON MAIN NEEND BADI,

PAR SONE KE LIYE HI WAQT NAHIN.

DIL HAIN KI GAMMON SE BHARAA HUA,

PAR RONE KA BHI WAQT NAHIN.

PAISON KI DAUD MAIN ME AESI DAUD,

KI THAKANE KA BHI WAQT NAHIN.

PARAYE EHSAASON KE LIYE KADRA KARNE JAB,

APNE SAPNO KE LIYE HI WAQT NAHIN.

TU HI BATA AE JINDAGI,

IS JINDAGI KA KYA HOGA,

KI HAR PAL MARNE WALON KO,

JINE KE LIYE BHI WAQT NAHIN...

Iss qadar zakhm hain nigaahon mein, Roz ek aaiinaa tod detaa huun

Khud ko parhtaa huun, chhod detaa huun,
Aik varq roz mod detaa huun,

Iss qadar zakhm hain nigaahon mein,
Roz ek aaiinaa tod detaa huun,

Main pujaarii baraste phuulon ka,
Chhuu ke shaakhon ko chhod detaa huun,

Kaasa-e-shab mein khuun suuraj kaa,
Qatraa qatraa nichod detaa huun,

Kaampte honth bhiigtii palkein,
Baat adhuurii hii chhod detaa huun,

Mann dee agni nu na raahat hee mili hai

Sheesheyan ch baitha jo khud nu chhupa ke,

Kis taran rakhega oh chehra luka ke,

Rukh vichara vekhda hee reh gya,

Lai gyi hai paun sabh patte udaa ke,

Mann dee agni nu na raahat hee mili hai,

Dekhiyaa sau vaari barfaan vich nahaa ke,

Kaun puchhega eh kyon kar jaagda,

Saun gaye jadd ghook sabh kisse sunaa ke,

Dekho uss dee laash saj ke ja rahi hai,

Umar bhar jo jiviyaa hasti mita ke,

Apna hee dil jadon apna na baniya,

Kee karaange gair nu apna banaa ke,

Good Bye

I don't really want to say goodbye
I don't really want to leave you...
But now I have to go away
Stay away from you forever...

What we had was something special
Deep down from our hearts...
But now I have to go away
And leave you from my heart...

Try to forget but can't
Try to die yeah i can..
Mind suddenly gone
My end is near...
Nothing to do now
But to tell you that
I LOVE YOU

Har din nazar aati hai mujhe raat tere baad

Phir zindagi ne chhoda mera sath tere baad

Mere honth hansi bhule meri ankh hui nam

Kitne bure hue hain halaat tere baad

Hain nafratein hi nafratein aa dekh to sahi

Dunia hui hai kitni badzaat tere baad

Ansu hain k ankhon ka bharam rakhte hi nahi

Rukti nahi hai ashkon ki barsaat tere baad

Tujh ko bhulna chahe to kis tarah

Hai dil mein ab bhi tere khyaalaat tere baad

RELATIONSHIP SECRETS !!!!!!!!!

ANNIVERSARIES
Always celebrate! Whether it's the 1st or the 50th, each year together is a triumph.

APPRECIATION
Let each other know how much you appreciate each other. You may already know but hearing it from each other is always better.

BEST FRIENDS
Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfrien d. Take time to know each other so the relationship will be a deep one. Tell each other about your crushes, dreams and problems. Make sure he/she is your best friend before getting engaged. The strong bond of friendship will help you both survive tough times.

BOND
Make it a point to spend time together often but leave room for each other. Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that at the end of the day you could both share your experiences. This way, you stay interesting with your partner.

CHANGING EACH OTHER
Don't marry an as...le, j.... or a bi.... (an unsuitable person) You'll never change each other.

COMPLIMENTS
Always compliment each other. This will prevent feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being taken for granted.

DATE
Keep doings things that you both enjoy, do them together. Make time & continue to date to keep the romance - look good, smell good to maintain physical attraction

DIFFERENCES
Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other's throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences, appreciate them.

FIGHTS
Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo each other. The longer you extend the fight. The more chances that you'll say something hurtful that you don't really mean. As mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still the person who laughs at your jokes & thinks you're hot. Hear each other out, don't dig up old issues. Choose your battles. Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight.

FLAWS
Know that the perfect person does not exist. Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.

FUN
Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days.
Allow yourselves to get silly - shower together, pee w/the door open etc. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.

GOALS
Make sure you have similar goals. It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.

GRUDGES
Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don't recycle it.

KEEPING IT HOT
Keep it hot by traveling to diff. places together. A new setting will do wonders. Always have skin contact - be it holding hands, a massage or just plain leg rubbing.

HONESTY
Don't lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.

KNOW EACH OTHER
Learn each other's interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing!

HUG
A hug can be far better more intimate than a kiss.

IDENTITY
Don't lose your personality - that's why he/she fell in love w/you. Have separate interest & activities to keep your individual, & to be able to contribute more to the relationship.

INDEPENDENCE
Having your own income means you're the boss in your life.

IN-LAWS
Make rooms for the in-laws.

INTENTIONS
Wish each other well. Don't wish each other worst

ISSUES
Speak up about the awkward stuff now,like money & sex. The earlier, the better.

LISTEN
Listen, listen, listen. Hear each other out especially during arguments.

LOOK GOOD
Mind your appearance! Stay fit & healthy for each other.

LOVE
It all boils down to your love, chemistry & respect for each other.

MEMORIES
Remind each other of the old days. Do something that you used to do for each other before. It may even be corny but it made you two together. Experience new things together- from dining into a new restaurant to experiencing street food together to exploring to new places. It's the little surprises that make great memories.

MIND READING
No matter how long you've been together, do not think that you can read each other's mind.

NEEDS
Be good to yourself, then be good to your partner. That's what love is all about. Think about your partner. Will it make him/her happy? Will she/he enjoy it? Consider each other's feelings. Be very attentive & sensitive to each other's needs, physically & emotionally, that way your partner learns to do the same for you. Never take your partner for granted.

PRIORITIES
If one says it's important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things!

SPACE
Give each other space. Have dates with your girlfriends, have your boy's night out. If you can't trust each other with this, then don't get married.

SORRY
Say sorry when you're wrong.

SURPRISES
No matter how long you've known each other, be open to surprises, both good or bad.

TEAMWORK
Think for two & always work as a team. Consult each other before making a decision because everything will always affect both of you. Strengthen couple power. In many ways, we have to decide based on what is best for the relationship in favor of our individual selves.

SUPPORT
Support each other's dream. Be willing to follow your passions, support your partner in his/her decisions & create new ones together. Two heads are better than one.

TALK
Tell each other's stories. Life goes by so fast & its easy to see how easily couple can grow apart. Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it & have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life, even by email if you have to.

Love For A Lifetime . .. ... ........

Our love will always seek happiness and joy
The one thing we cherish that can't be destroyed

Life is so short let's hold it forever
It's you that I want and it's you that I treasure

Your kisses of love, grasp a hold of my heart
There's nothing in this world that can keep us apart

Our bond is the key to our lifetime of dreams
And our heart is without blemish and forever clean

I thank you dear god for sending him to me
Let's let everyone know we were meant to be

Every day i wake up..
Just to spend one more day of my life with u

Every night that I go to sleep
Is only to dream about you

Every time I dress up well
Is for you to compliment me

Everytime a smile on my face
Indicates you presence near me

A smile is what comes naturally
The moment I c u or think about u

And also I cant help crying
When I am not with u..

My life is so beautiful
When we are together

Every second spent with u is precious
But I also understand it wont last forever..

Life is so short and so many things to do
We don't know abt tomo..and for rebirth I have no clue

I wanna spend every single day with you
And live happily to fullest today
Tomorrow may not just come at all
I don't want to have a regret in anyway

God has been great, to give me a gem like you
I want to preserve this gem in my heart and soul
I cant stay away without you
You are my life,my heart and my soul . . .

Trying To Forget You.....

Up until now
I had so much to say
but it's everything I've said
That's gotten in my way

I won't talk about you
Anymore to anyone
The time for that has passed
It's just over with and done

Supposed-to-be forgotten words
are still dancing in my head
And I'm just trying to "not remember"
A single thing you've said

I wanna forget all about you
Who you are and what your name is
Cause it's causing so much pain
And I honestly can't take this ..

I Want All My Days Back

There were days where I wanted you back, but I knew and always will
Even the best of memories of then fall through...
Because your gone
and I did nothing wrong.
I loved you,
I cared,
you still did what I feared
left, without explanation
I still to this day,
don't know why...
Thinking without you
I'll forever cry
You were the only one
I've ever loved
Other gals that came along
meant nothing, I hope you know.
You were my everything
wish you still were... but instead
I'm left with nothing ..

If I Could ..

If I Could Fly
I'd Show To You The Sky
I'd Take You To The Stars
We Could Make Out On Mars


If I could Breath Under The Sea
We Could Hang Out With The Dolphins And Join Them For Tea
I'd Find For You The Biggest Pearl
Happy In Knowing You Were My Girl



If I could Travel Through Time
I'd Go Back To When You Were Mine
I'd Stop Myself Messing Up And Treating You Bad
And Throwing Away The Best Thing I Ever Had

Come to Me, Dont ever Go Away

Where have U gone?!
The one that was always there
The one i depended on

With everyday that goes by
I feel we drift apart
Further and further away
But forever in my heart

Please come back to me
And don't leave me alone
I feel so empty
I feel so cold

I love you i do
With everything i am
But please come back to me
And hold me where I stand ..

Love Kills ..

Suno , Kisi ne sach kaha tha ye,
Mohabbat mar nahi sakti ..

Magar ,

Adhura sach suna humney,
Mukammal sach to yeh hai k ..

Mohabbat khud nhi marti ,
Mohabbat maar deti hai ..

Memories Play a Confusing Role

You left me not too long ago
And yet it seems like forever,
I reminisce the day you left all this time
Because I was right there beside you..

I can't seem to get over the feelings I had,
At that very moment I felt so alone,
It grew cold in the room
That I lost all feelings and sense..

All I had was pure silence and disbelief,
I saw people moving towards you all around me
And yet I couldn't move a step towards you,
I couldn't distinguish my emotions
Because I wasn't sure of them..

I felt soo much anger and sadness, but I couldn't cry
At that moment I wasn't sure what was wrong,
And now a year & a half later it all comes back to me
Every tear I held in falls, and now I can't seem to stop..

I've realized how much I missed you
And how much I've needed you here
But there is no way for me to reach out for your touch.
I feel so alone right now,
That I just wish you could take me with..

I Missed You

Today I thought about you

and I realized something.

I felt like a part of me was missing,

and I discovered it was you.



We're so comfortable around each other,

and we don't have to think about

what we say, or how we say it.

I missed that today. I missed you.



I thought of the times when we

kicked back, shared our dreams, our hopes,

and plans ~ and you really listened.

I missed that today. I missed you.



Remembering your smile,

and how you made me smile ~

created a smile.

I love how being just who we are is enough.

I missed that today. I missed you.



And so, as you go through your busy day,

and I go through mine,

please know that you often cross my mind,

and I missed you today. I missed you.

Bhula Diya..........

Suno!
Main Jee Raha Hoon
Jaan Loo
Nami Ankhon Main Rehti Bhi Rahe To Kya
Main Abb Bhi Muskurata Hoon
Suno!
Yeh Dil
Keh Jiss Ko Dekh Na Paye
Yeh Mera Dil
Boht Se Daagh Rakhta Hai
Magar Phir Bhi Dharakta Hai
Ke Main Ne Abb Bhi
Judaioon Ke Taweel Zard Mosmoon Main Bhi
Unn Meethi,Talakh Sari Yadoon Ko
Apne Damann Main Chunn Rakha Hai
To Kya Hua Hai
Jo Tum Ne Sab Kuch Bhulla Diya Hai
Wo Sare Mosam Muhabatoon Ke
Meri Mataye e Hayat Hain Wo Purane Lamhe
Tumhari Yadein, Mera Ehsaas
Wo Sarey Mosam Muhabaton Ke
Wo Sari Batain
Tumhara Lehja
Gaye Huye Mah O Saal Sarey
Wo Ehde E Rafta
Abhi Bhi Muthi Main Qyed Hain
Wo Sabhi Sitare
Muhbaton Ke Wo Ishaare
Wo Sabb Ishaare
Keh Main Ne Abb Bhi
Judaioon Ke Taweel Zard Mosmoon Main Bhi
Unn Meethi,Talakh Sari Yadoon Ko
Apne Damann Main Chunn Rakha Hai
To Kya Hua Hai
Jo Tum Ne Sab Kuch Bhulla Diya Hai

Beet Jaye Na Kahin Raat Koi Baat Karo
Jane Phir Kab Ho Mulaqaat Koi Baat Karo


Bewafa Mujh Ko Kaho Ya Koi Shikwa He Karo
Hai Gawara Teri Her Baat Koi Baat Karo


Rooth Jao Har Bar Tumhain Mana Lain Gay
Kuch To Samjho Mere JazBat Koi Baat Karo


Tujh Ko Dekha Hai To Thamnay Lagi Zakhmon Ki Jalan
Do Na Dard Ki SoGhaat Koi Baat Karo


Mausam-e- Hijar Mein Viraan Hai Mere Dil Ki Zameen
Pal Mein Ho Jaye Gi Barsat Koi Baat Karo

MY LAST WISH

One coin left inside my pocket,
I came upon a wishing well.
Hesitantly I tossed it in,
Now only time will tell.

Whether my wish will be granted,
Or, I shall be denied.
Peace of mind or empty pockets,
At least I know I tried.

Once I had so many coins,
All were wasted in the past.
Broken dreams, and empty promises,
Now I'm down to my last.

Life is but a coin toss,
Whether or not your dreams come true.
With my eyes closed, I heard the splash,
Then wished that I had you.

Once upon a time the colors of the world started to quarrel.
All claimed that they were the best. The most important.
The most useful. The favorite.



Green said:"Clearly I am the most important. I am the sign of life and of hope.
I was chosen for grass, trees and leaves. Without me, all animals
would die. Look over the countryside and you will see that I
am in the majority."

Blue interrupted:"You only think about the earth, but consider the sky
and the sea. It is the water that is the basis of life and drawn up by the
clouds from the deep sea.
The sky gives space and peace and serenity.
Without my peace, you would all be nothing."

Yellow chuckled:"You are all so serious. I bring laughter, gaiety, and warmth
into the world. The sun is yellow, the moon is yellow, the stars are yellow.
Every time you look at a sunflower, the whole world starts to smile.
Without me there would be no fun."

Orange started next to blow her trumpet:"I am the color of health and
strength. I may be scarce, but I am precious for I serve the needs of human
life. I carry the most important vitamins. Think of carrots, pumpkins,
oranges, mangoes, and papayas. I don't hang around all the time,
but when I fill the sky at sunrise or sunset, my beauty is so striking that
no one gives another thought to any of you."

Red could stand it no longer he shouted out:"I am the ruler of all of you.
I am blood, life's blood! I am the color of danger and of bravery. I am
willing to fight for a cause. I bring fire into the blood. Without me, the
earth would be as empty as the moon. I am the color of passion and of love,
the red rose, the poinsettia and the poppy."

Purple rose up to his full height:He was very tall and spoke with great
pomp: "I am the color of royalty and power. Kings, chiefs, and bishops have
always chosen me for I am the sign of authority and wisdom. People do not
question me! They listen and obey."

Finally Indigo spoke, much more quietly than all the others, but with just as
much determination: "Think of me. I am the color of silence. You hardly notice
me, but without me you all become superficial. I represent thought and
reflection, twilight and deep water. You need me for balance and contrast,

for prayer and inner peace."

And so the colors went on boasting, each convinced of his or her own
superiority. Their quarreling became louder and louder. Suddenly there was a
tartling flash of bright lightening thunder rolled and boomed. Rain started
to pour down relentlessly. The colors crouched down in fear, drawing close
to one another for comfort.

In the midst of the clamor, rain began to speak:"You foolish colors, fighting
amongst yourselves, each trying to dominate the rest. Don't you know that you
were each made for a special purpose,unique and different? Join hands with
one another and come to me."


Doing as they were told, the colors united and joined hands. The rain
continued:"From now on,when it rains, each of you will stretch across the sky
in a great bow of color as a reminder that you can all live in peace. The
Rainbow is a sign of hope for tomorrow." And so, whenever a good rain washes
the world, and a Rainbow appears in the sky, let us remember to
appreciate one another.